Today's Special: Plain Vanilla

I just realized something interesting, and something I haven't experienced in a long time: I know I'm falling for Mr Right because many of the things I want to do with him are so vanilla: watching all kinds of movies together, spending the weekend just talking, shopping, cleaning, cooking, and just "being." Oh yes, and all without drama. I haven't felt this way since I decided to get married way back in 1987.

What is it that in your D/s relationship that lets you know THIS is the real thing, and your partnership can stand the test of time?

4 Comments so far »

  1. by mouse , on August 14, 2009 at 11:08 AM

    I just did a whole post on this topic.


  2. by Kitty , on August 14, 2009 at 10:23 PM

    to put it simply...

    i just cant live my life happily without him. It sounds stupid and whatnot but it really is the simple things.

  3. by selkie , on August 25, 2009 at 7:11 PM

    cutsey, NOTHING comes with a guarantee. The question is whether you're willing to take a chance yet again.

  4. by cutesypah , on August 26, 2009 at 8:36 PM

    yes, my dear selkie, I am taking a chance, realizing there is no guarantee, including whether I'll get hit by a car as I walk out of my office, and drive the three miles home. But, I've come to realize that if life were full of guarantees, it would be no fun, as everything would hold no mystery. And I'm definitely a mystery loving girl!!

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